Bad temper

“嗔火能烧功德林”愈是愤怒的时候，愈要克制自己，不轻易口出恶言，伤人伤己。一时的怒气，无心的语言，往往会毁掉多年辛苦培养的友谊和功德。大肚能容，断却许多烦恼障，笑容可掬，结成无量欢喜缘。

Angriness blinded each and every of your thinking and as well as your action.
All of sudden..your boiling point is up to 100 degree celsius till you didnt realise that it's already exploded few seconds ago.
Once you are awake..you found out that you have taken the wrong step..saying the wrong thing..losing your rationality..

Yes i admit that i'm a bad temper person.
Being scolded by my parents few times(a lot of times actually) asking me to change my behaviour and control my temper since i'm a "girl"...

"Strict and fierce are the essential principles in working place" especially if you are in the position of higher management.. ya..no doubt it's true..but in the meantime, it may destroy your relationship with other co-workers as well..if you are overwhelming in using it.

I'm trying to change it d..eliminate my bad temper..
When i'm going to explode, i'll just have to hold it for 3 seconds..
No it shouldnt be like that..am still considered as a bad temper person..
I have to change my way of thinking..
Should accept every opinion from others..
Listen and ignore if it is unreasonable.
Need not make myself angry because of others' "stupidity" -->bad word..lol

Everyday, i listen to their complaints..this and that..i'll just listen..and try not to say anything..coz i'm controlling myself not to be one of them.